Sitting
in the middle of a jet, adjacent to a good friend
and a friendly woman with a fondness for airplane
peanuts is how I will forever envision the moment of
when I first arrived in an overseas country.
Exhilarated yet exhausted, I was in France.In
what seemed like a matter of moments, the rest of my
French trip classmates and I were dropped off at
Lycée Jean Baptiste-Corot, which I later learned is
the largest public secondary school in France.
Looking out of the tinted bus window, I almost
immediately recognized my French host student, whom
I had been in contact with via Facebook. Without
saying "au revoir" to my friends, for fear of a
painful goodbye, I grabbed my green hibiscus floral
suitcase and left with what would be my family for
the next nine days.
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ALEX MCFALL/Mirada
Staff
Above: Senior Meghan Cohan
sits patiently as her portrait
is drawn by a French artist
along the Seine River.
Right: Senior Scott MacDonald
and French Alec Hodgins gaze up
at the world-famous Moulin
Rouge, located in the northern
district of Paris.
Top right: Moulin Rouge
shines as the crown jewel of the
Montmartre district. The
establishment recently
celebrated its 120-year
anniversary.
Middle right: Junior Victoria
Grajeda and seniors Kara-lyn
Langan and Hanna Spano gaze in
awe at the incredibly large
"Harry Potter" movie poster on
the wall of the metro station.
The Metro was every student’s
means of transportation due to
its convenience and
affordability.
Bottom right: A French jazz
band performs in front of a live
audience in La Defense Plaza
during the annual jazz festival.
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I didn’t speak English for the entire nine days
that I stayed with my host family. As difficult as
it was to speak French constantly, I desperately
wanted to improve my French and represent my country
in a positive light. After all, why would I speak
English when I was in France?
My family was extremely impressed that I didn’t
speak a word of English to them, but I missed my
native language dreadfully, and even feared at times
that I would lose my ability to speak English
properly. Speaking a language other than my own was
extremely exhausting, because I constantly had to
think about how to translate what I wanted to say
into French.
However, by the time I had
to say goodbye to my family, I could pretty much
understand everything they were saying, which I felt
was an accomplishment.
Despite language barriers,
my host and I were able to share things in common,
such as carnivals and rides at Parc Asterix, a
French theme park. On the day of the national music
festival in France, I went to a small neighborhood
carnival with my family and rode on rides. Laughter
is universal, so communication wasn’t really an
issue there!
I was extremely happy to be enjoying the wonders
of a foreign country, but was also a tad homesick,
considering I didn’t speak to my family for the
entire two weeks I was overseas. There were many
times when I was in France that I wished my sister
were there with me to experience certain things,
simply because I knew she would have enjoyed it,
especially since she absolutely loved Paris when she
traveled with her French class two summers ago.

When I was with my
classmates, we used the convenient Metro system, and
the freedom we were granted to travel pretty much
anywhere we wanted to go in Paris. Eating a fresh
baguette sandwich with pesto for lunch on a shady
patch of grass in the Latin Quartier, just outside
Notre Dame, my friends and I had a chance to stop
and rest from our hectic day. It was times like this
that made me wish I could freeze time and remain in
Paris forever.
France, although a lovely
place to visit, could never feel like home to me. I
suppose that in a way, traveling to France not only
taught me more about a different culture that I
could never fully experience in a classroom, but it
also made me appreciate America more so than I ever
have. However, I was happy that I was able to view
and experience the wonders of Paris, and
successfully cross off everything on my "to do" list
in France. In fact, I don’t think I would have
changed a single thing about my trip to France.
My
French host family treated me as if I were truly a
part of their family, and I had a wonderful time
utilizing the Metro with my fellow classmates and
going to all sorts of cool places like Montmartre.
Yet while the simple tasks
of everyday life in France were fascinatingly
appreciated, I began to miss the typical occurrences
of my American life. Who knew it would take a trip
to France to transform me into a more patriotic
citizen, proud to live in one of the best countries
in the world?
The simple things in life
are taken for granted, and being without them,
especially thousands of miles away overseas, made me
appreciate them even more. For instance, returning
to the United States just in time for the Fourth of
July was a blessing in itself, because I was home
just in time to celebrate the day our country gained
its independence, along with my family and
neighbors.
But what I truly missed was
just being able to drive myself in my own car,
windows rolled down and radio blasting, and stop off
at the grocery store or nearest Starbucks, and be
able to purchase something with American money, and
be able to speak my native tongue with a fellow
American citizen.
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